071. Radiant Leadership Series Part 3: Exploring the Transformative Power of Self-Trust in Business and Leadership

Are you standing in your own way when it comes to business and leadership? Let's explore the transformative power of self-trust and self-worthiness. This conversation examines the dynamic between the healer and CEO within us, illustrating how to navigate these identities with integrity and passion while maintaining an objective perspective. We'll also speak candidly about past investments in the coaching industry, and how to rebuild trust in ourselves following disappointment. As we move through this journey, remember that the key is to lead our businesses from a self-sourced place and to steadfastly claim our own expansion and leadership. 

As we delve deeper, we'll discuss the pivotal role trust plays in our personal growth journey. It's about anchoring into the mastery that already exists within us, instead of constantly seeking external validation. This shift in mindset can bring about a transformational impact on our businesses, lives, and relationships. To wrap things up, we'll share some practical tips on how to stay motivated, push past your comfort zones, and overcome resistance. So, buckle up for this inspirational conversation, and if it resonates, don't forget to download, rate, and share the podcast so more like-minded leaders can join us on this empowering journey.

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Speaker 1: 0:01

Welcome to Return to Radiance, the podcast with one core purpose to remind you of urinate power and essence. I'm your host, danielle Venables, an Akashic guide and soul coach, here to activate, heal and empower the new wave of soulful CEOs to become radically aligned and unapologetic. In these episodes, we will be diving into all things mystic, soul level transformation, the new paradigm of leadership, business, energetics, awakening, healing and more, as well as holding potent conversations around connecting deeply to your personal power and owning your truth. If you are here for it all, be sure to hit subscribe so you never miss an episode. While I'm confident the discussions in this podcast have the power to change your life, these episodes are for information only and are in no way a substitute for individual medical, legal or mental health advice.

Speaker 2: 0:59

Hello and welcome to part 3 of the Radiant Leadership Activation series. I have a toddler who has been sick all night and all day in my bed, so I had to move out of my own bedroom to record this one. I'm just kind of doing what I can today and giving myself lots of space and grace too, because dealing with a pukey child has been a day. But I promise you I would be here, so I'm showing up, I'm here. I've been getting a clear message all morning that wanted to come through that I'm going to share with you today, and I feel like there will be a thread in this for everybody. Whether you are brand new in business, you can stick around. Whether you have been in business for years and years, whether you're not where you want to be financially, or you are, there is something that wants to come through for the collective here. That will shift, I think, the way that we approach our leadership in business. That will shift the way that we approach the moves that we make as CEOs, as business owners and really as executive authorities in our business, because at the end of the day, in the spiritual world, there is a lot of talk around being the leader, being the healer being, you know, whatever label you put on yourself In your business, but at the end of the day we are also CEOs, we are also executives in our business and because of that there is space for both. And when we can really anchor in that synergy between the CEO identity and the healer identity, that's where things start to get really good and that's also where we get to start looking at things from an objective perspective, while maintaining the degree of integrity, the degree of passion, the degree of like, how personal it is to be running our businesses this way, to be like soul led, heart centered leaders in our businesses. And it's that ability to hold both the objective and to be in the experience of being so wildly passionate about what you're doing it's both that allows you to really move forward in a way that makes business sense and develops that self trust that we so desperately need, while also being deeply connected to what we're doing.

Speaker 2: 4:15

So I just want to start off by saying that the Doris Deliberated Legacy Mastermind close tomorrow. Until this evening I have a special limited time bonus worth $6,000 that you can plug into. If you get in my inbox right now about this mastermind, I'm giving you an additional six months of private voxer support after the mastermind ends to close out a full 12 month mentorship space together. So you're not only getting you know for 7k, you're not only getting all of the insane value that I'm packing into this mastermind the one-on-one calls for the next six months on your personal evolutionary journey, as well as the group masterminding, business expansion, brainstorming, sisterhood and the voxer support within that space but you're also getting six additional months after the fact of private voxer to really integrate and solidify the new identity that you're stepping into. So you definitely don't want to miss out on that. It is insane value.

Speaker 2: 5:26

When that bonus came through, I was like what the hell? But also I love voxer, so I'm here for it. So that is available until tonight. So get in my DMs right now. Like, literally, exit this live and go get in my DMs if that's something that you would like to take advantage of, and then tomorrow night the doors are closing and that is it. That is your last chance to step in. That is your last chance to come forward and say yes, I am claiming this for myself, I am claiming my expansion, I am claiming my leadership and really leading my business from that self-sourced place. So doors closed tomorrow. Bonus expires tonight. Reach out via DM. I will never pressure you, but I will help you arrive at your answer that is right for you at this time.

Speaker 2: 6:20

So, with that set aside, let's go into the transmission that wants to come through today, which is related to when are you going to start to trust yourself? What is it going to take to start to trust yourself and this has kind of been a theme that we've touched on here and there when it comes to outsourcing our authority with mentors, when it comes to looking outside of ourselves for the answers for how to do things, for how to scale to the 20, 30, 50k months, when we're looking for how to have our message land with our people and convert higher, all of that is essentially rooted in self-trust and self-worthiness. But I want to dive even deeper into that, because what I've been realizing in the conversations that I've been having behind the scenes is that so many of us have been burned or have been disappointed with an investment that we have made in the coaching industry, and that's something that is part of my own story. That's something I know. Several of my own mentors have gone through this. Obviously, my clients have experienced this and that's why they ended up in my world at some point. But it really is coming from this place of when are you going to trust yourself again? And this is hard because we go into these coach-client agreements, we go into these programs that have been sold to us where there's these big promises about doing it the aligned way and being that spiritual leader, and there's so much of that woven into marketing and it's like this filter that's put over traditional marketing tactics but it's like marketed to the spiritual community. And I really struggle with this because, like I said, it is something that hits close to home for me and it is also something that kept me kind of hiding. It kept me in that outsourcing energy for a long time of having this subtle belief that someone else needed to show me how to do it, because if I knew how to do it I would already be there, and that, for me, is how I ended up in those positions.

Speaker 2: 8:52

It might be slightly different for you. Maybe there is a skill set that you felt like you really didn't have, that you needed to develop or you needed to acquire, and then you get into the space and you realize that there's no actual Space holding for the transformation you are learning. You are in student mode. There are video modules dropping. You know you've got a mentor who is telling you what to do, telling you what next step to take, telling you that you need to go bigger, think bigger, that your strategy needs to be bigger, that you need to reach more people. Whatever it is they're telling you and highlighting all of these things that you're lacking, that then become your beliefs that you are lacking these things, which is ultimately what creates the result.

Speaker 2: 9:41

Right and Really, what would have been the most supportive Would have just been to have that space to drop into, to have that space to have your ideas, your brilliance reflected back to you and to start to really build that confidence and that commitment to yourself, to your way, To what you are here to do and say and share, and how you're here to show up and Invite people into your spaces, which there are edges there. There are things that we can do to push those edges, to reach more people, to build those one-on-one connections. I know, in this launch myself, I've had to Do certain things and make certain connections that have felt edgy, that have felt uncomfortable, that have felt like oh my god, are they gonna think I'm salesy? Are they gonna think I'm whatever right, like I've had to push my own edges there? But at the end of the day, there's a difference between knowing that you're pushing an edge and Just straight up being in resistance because something isn't feeling right, and that's where that trust needs to come in.

Speaker 2: 10:57

And that's also where an Experience like the liberated legacy mastermind is going to be different, because I'm never going to tell you that you have to do things a certain way. I'm never going to tell you that if you want to succeed, you have to be doing cold outreach, or if you want to succeed, you have to post 50 times a day, or if you want to succeed, insert the narrative here. It is all bullshit. It is all rooted in your essence, in who you're being and what you're showing up as Hi kid child, more so than it is about what you are physically doing and I know this because I know the women in my world are doing the things. You're showing up. You're creating the content, you have the offers, you have the website, you have all of these action-based pieces Established, and it's not that you don't have to continue to take those actions, but it is that you also get to acknowledge that you've done enough, that you are enough, that you're set up enough, that those foundations are in place enough. So the missing piece really then becomes the embodiment, it really then becomes the belief system, it becomes the underlying energetics of what you're doing in the way that you're showing up, and that is the trickiest part to really embody, because you can think you're embodying it, you can move towards embodying it, you can try to put yourself out there in different ways, but if there are these subtle undercurrents of not trusting yourself, of not trusting your message, of not trusting your channel, of not trusting what's coming through, when you show up and you open your mouth and you speak from that authentic place, there's still gonna be that wobbly, energetic undercurrent and that's really what stunts Are growth. Okay, so jump, go, put it on the table, sweetheart. That's what stunts our growth when it comes to the next level, so to speak, in our business. Right like that is what stops us from really growing and expanding. It's not because you need to do more, it's not because you need another strategy. It's because you Are ready to expand and embody and anchor a new layer of your essence into your being. I Hope I'm making sense, because the distractions around here are real today, but I really felt like that message needed to come through and so with that, it's like when you look at your readiness to shift that today, when you look at oh, maybe I'll jump in next round, when you look at, I'm not quite ready, but I will be in a month or two, or three or six I. Is that really true? Or are you afraid of being misled? Are you afraid of being burned again? Which is valid? It's completely valid, and you absolutely can figure this out on your own.

Speaker 2: 14:17

But the women that are being called to this work, called to especially the private evolutionary pathway that's woven into this mastermind are really being called to having space held for their essence to come forward and having that space to really bring through their magic, their magnetism, their expression, in a way that it hasn't been allowed to come through before, because the mentorship spaces they've been in have actually been stifling, have actually been telling them that their way is wrong and that they need to do something a different way, and so the invitation here is really to sit with. Am I not ready or am I afraid? Why are you not trusting the nudges? Why are you not trusting that intuitive poll? Why are you not trusting that you know the next steps and that you don't need a mentor who is giving you the answers, because those aren't your answers anyway, and this was a lesson that I've had to learn time and time again.

Speaker 2: 15:29

Honestly, it's the number of times that I've been through this loop is kind of insane before it finally sunk in, before I finally realized what I was doing and what cycle and pattern I was stuck in. And it's also going to be the thing that liberates you from that cycle. And so how would it feel to no longer have a list of six different programs that you want to take because you think that you need them all? Subconsciously? Right, there's that. There's that subconscious belief that I need them all and which one am I going to get to next? How would it feel to anchor fully into the mastery that you already have, that you already are the masterpiece that you are? How would it feel to anchor into that and to not feel like you need the external anymore? What would shift in the way that you show up in your business, in your life, in your relationships? What would change? And that's really why the liberated legacy mastermind was created, because I see the need so deeply for space to be held for that and I saw a heart.

Speaker 2: 16:43

If there's anyone here who's commenting I cannot see the comments today, but I really just want to invite you into some deeper contemplation around that, because the liberated legacy mastermind to me has been such a game changer, not just in terms of the results and, trust me, the results are there. I talked about them briefly. You know, tripling your year to date income in the span of our time together, being fully booked out, maintaining your income while taking a month off with your kids All of these things are real results from real people that have happened and are absolutely possible for you to in this expansion, of course, but it's not because I'm telling you what to do or how to do it. You are the expert, you are the master, you know your life, you know your energy, you know what feels aligned for you. I am simply here to hold space and to hold up that mirror and reflect back to you what your soul is asking for in the first place, and that is where we are growing from, that is where we are expanding from and that is really where we are headed as new paradigm leaders in this lifetime, in this business, in this purpose that was so deeply ingrained on your heart, in your soul. That's what I'm here for.

Speaker 2: 18:06

I'm here to witness that expansion, and so, if this feels like the right fit for you, please reach out to me. I would love to have a conversation with you. The doors are closing, like I said, tomorrow, so time is of the essence at this point. We are closing up, we are getting started. I am over the moon excited for the women who have already said yes and the ones that are right there on the brink of saying yes, you know who you are, I see you, I love you, and it's going to be a really beautiful, intimate group over the next six months to journey together in sisterhood, in expansion and really just in your own authentic leadership, which is what we are all here for. So reach out if you want to talk about it. I will leave it at that for today and I will be back tomorrow to close out with part four of this series. Thank you so much for being here and I'll talk to you soon.

Speaker 1: 19:13

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